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The Grotto Gazette: 19/11/23
Can you believe there is only 11 days left of November? 😯. In no time it's going to be December 😅. Let's not focus too far into the...
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The Uninvited Roommates: A Tale Of Inner Trumoil
The familiar emotions creep in, almost silently but the twinges give them away. Sadness, insecurities, loneliness, a drop in self-worth,...
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The Grotto Gazette: 08/10/23
Well, this week has been chill but also busy. The busiest day was my graduation. The rest of the days were pretty standard. My graduation...
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The Grotto Gazette: 17/09/23
I think this week's Grotto Gazette may be on the short side 😅. This week has been fairly normal. M has been working, D is still down his...
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The Grotto Gazette: 11/09/23
Well, this post is a little late but hey ho 😂. This week has been an absolute joy, with a tiny sprinkle of ~feelings~. The beginning of...
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NRE (new relationship energy) and Me
NRE (new relationship energy) is a term I didn't know until I started frequenting polyamorous communities online. In a simple form, NRE...
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Distance Relationships And Me
Having relationships with someone who isn't local to you can be difficult, but worth it. I haven't been in many long-distance...
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The Grotto Gazette: 16/07/23
In this weeks edition I discuss: V growing up, a near shutdown, dealing with feelings, and my upcoming week.
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The Grotto Gazette: 11/06/23
Introducing The Grotto Gazette, a weekly post describing how my week has gone. This week a Fiverr review is featured.
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Friendships and Me
Being my neurodivergent little self, friendships and being social aren't something I'm all that skilled at.
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Relationship Application: Yay or Nay?
The other night when I was trying to sleep, I was reminded of a meme that showed a "relationship application" of sorts. So, I created my own
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